Stop being a JUDGY B#@$% or A#@hole (for the guys who are reading) ha!

Have you ever noticed people say things about other people and they are doing the exact same things? Are you one of those people who believe their own way and own existence is the only way? Do you think your way is the right way and judge when someone doesn’t do exactly as you? Who is saying your way is the right way? Maybe you are in the wrong. Look around you…. how many people LIKE to be with you? Not forced to be with you but WANT to be with you. If you don’t have people contacting you besides family there is a reason. If you are having a hard time it could be you and mostly likely is you. Are you judging people? Are you saying things that are mean or people perceive as mean even if you think they aren’t?

I see it quite a bit. I have done it before and talked to myself about it. Why are you judging people or saying things about people when you my friends are doing the exact same thing? Why are you judging someone for not attending church or a community event when you have missed as well? Why are you saying someone is weak and won’t stand up for themselves when you don’t do it either? Why are you complaining about a person not being a good friend when you haven’t been such a good friend? Why are you saying someone complains too much when you complain just as much? Why are you saying someones work isn’t done as good when yours isn’t very good? Why are you saying someone is fat when you are overweight as well? Even if you aren’t doing the same things judging and saying things are still not good. Who gave you the right to judge and say mean things? Pretty sure you are not the rule of the universe.

Get my drift????

When you see yourself judging, saying or thinking things about others stop and question yourself. Do you do something similar or the exact same thing? Pretty sure you do and if you don’t then shut yourself up because you don’t need to judge either way! You haven’t lived a day in that person’s shoes whether they are Prada or Payless we all have our shit.

Focus on not being a judgy little bitch or asshole this week!

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BOOM and there you have it!





Stop the excuses, get your butt up, and go work on that goal!



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If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you’ll find an excuse.

“If it is important to you, you will find a way.

If not, you’ll find an excuse.”  


I hear so many excuses of why something can’t be done…even from myself a lot of times. Stop making the excuses and start making your life what you want it to be!

Pull it together and focus on what you want and find a way to do what you want to do! 



EVERY DAY YOU HAVE TO WAKE UP AND SAY THIS TO YOURSELF! With whatever you want to do don’t let negativity from you or anybody around you stop you from accomplishing your dreams and goals! Put your heart in it and GO….the constantly remind yourself that NOTHING WILL or CAN STOP YOU!! Reach that goal and feel what it’s like to accomplish something your worked so hard for!!

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BE BAD, then GOOD, then GREAT!!


When I start a lot of new things in my life I am usually bad at them. FOR EXAMPLE: when I started my art I wasn’t very good, the talent was in there but I had to work my ass off to get better and better and become the artist I am today. I haven’t stopped getting better. The more I work the better I get each year. When I started working out I sucked, my husband can tell you that! The more I did it the better I got! 

When trying something new or starting over again you are usually bad. Do you think Lance Armstrong, Micheal Phelps, Picasso, or Serena Williams were all just good? Do you think they just walked out on the courts or up to a canvas and wowed everybody? UM NO! Reality check! It all came with hard work! They put in the hours and worked their butts off! They were bad, then good, then great! 

So don’t put unrealistic expectations on yourself! Start off bad, then good, and then BE GREAT! It actually makes reaching great that much sweeter! 

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